So, you’ve finally chosen a sperm donor. It’s taken a lot of research, analysis, and reflection to reach this point. It’s a huge milestone in your journey of building the family of your dreams. Now that you’ve chosen, you could feel relieved and excited. However, the journey has only just begun. Here’s some information on what to know about the next steps in the process:
Purchase Vials
Once you make your selection for a donor, the next step is to figure out the type of vials you will need, as well as the number of vials. Keep in mind that there are some factors to consider when determining the vials, including whether or not you plan to have more than one donor conceived child from the sperm donor.
This is something that you’ll want to work specifically with your doctor about. However, most choose between IUI-ready (intrauterine insemination) or ICI-ready (intracervical insemination) vials, depending on your fertility plan and your healthcare provider’s recommendation. You’ll also want to work with your clinic, doctor, or specialist to determine how and where the vials will be shipped.
Consider Timing
Once the vials are purchase, you’ll want to coordinate the timing for insemination with your clinic, OB-GYN, or fertility specialist. They’ll help determine the best time for insemination based on your ovulation cycle and overall fertility plan. This timing is crucial, and your provider will likely schedule ultrasounds or blood tests to track your cycle.
A lot of what happens at this stage is very personal, which is why you’ll want to work closely with your medical team. You need to not only time things correctly, but you will also want to do so in a way that you’re 100% comfortable with.
Get Support
Support is a big part of the process, and you’ll want to make sure you have plenty of it. Here are the types of support you should consider (beyond your medical team):
- Legal. Depending on where you live, you may want to review legal considerations around donor conception.
- Emotional. You may want outside support from a counselor or therapist to talk things over. This is a highly emotional process, and the support could be helpful.
- Peer. It could be helpful to get support from others who have been on this journey. They can support you in ways your medical team cannot.
Procedure Monitoring
Once your timing is confirmed and the vials have arrived at your provider’s office, your insemination procedure will take place. From there, the two-week wait begins. This is a time often filled with emotions, such as hope, stress, and even anticipation. Your clinic will schedule follow-up appointments or a pregnancy test to confirm results. This high-stress time is also a big reason why you should have avenues of support in place – you might need them!
Note that it may take more than one cycle to conceive, and that’s perfectly normal. We encourage you to stay in communication with your provider and reach out if you have any questions about additional vials or support resources.
Choosing a donor is just the beginning. Please get in touch to let us know how we can support you.