Choosing to grow your family with donor sperm is a beautiful one that could change your life. It’s true that once you are a parent, it is a similar experience no matter how you had your child, whether it was with donor sperm or not.
However, this is a really special journey you’ve embraced on, is that should be honored when you consider parenthood while down this path. So, before you embark on the journey of having a donor conceived child, these are some things you should know about parenthood.
Before you get started considering parenthood, you should know the basics of how the process works. Donor sperm is typically sourced through licensed cryobanks (like us), which rigorously screen and test every donor to ensure safety, health, and quality.
Recipients can choose from a wide range of donor profiles based on traits like physical features, education, ethnicity, interests, and medical history. From there, a fertility specialist, doctor, or midwife can help you determine your best path and help you through the process. This is a big step on the path to becoming a parent through this process.
One of the great things about being on this journey is that using donor sperm on the path to becoming a family can be a blessing for a variety of scenarios. What is your unique path? Your path is different from anyone else’s, and this should be honored while embarking on this journey.
For example, some people are on this path because of their lifestyle, others to overcome fertility challenges, and a host of other reasons. It doesn’t matter the reason, but the journey becomes much easier and straightforward if you establish your “why” before you start the process. This is a rode that can be different, and if you are clear on your “why” it can help you stay focused on the goal.
Next, it is time to choose a donor. This step requires you to really nail down what you are looking for in a donor. Also, this is often one of the most emotional parts of the journey. This is where you might realize you need the most support. You will also need to get to know the different disclosure types at this stage so that you can choose the right kind of donor. Not only that, but donor profiles are filled with information that you will need to consider, such as:
Preparing yourself for parenthood is a layered process that asks you to consider more than just the medical side of things. This journey can stir up a range of emotions hope, joy, anxiety, even grief. Counseling or support groups can help you process these feelings and prepare you to share your child’s origin story in an honest and empowering way.
Many parents start the conversation about donor conception early, helping their children grow up with a strong sense of identity, love, and belonging. This is something to consider down the line after your child is born.
Are you interested in exploring this path? We can help. Get in touch for more information.
Cascade Cryobank, located in Lynnwood Washington, helps you grow your family with quality donor sperm derived from a selective screening process.
